Can you think of some moments in your life when you were able to remember things as clearly as it was yesterday? It is in the ways that our unconscious mind processes memory that where we will be focusing on in this episode.The unconscious mind represses unresolved negative emotions.It is the actual repression of the conten...

Last week many of us lost that American icon. Well not all of us knew him personally, many of us had followed him for the majority of his career. when we learned that Stephen "tWitch" Boss had died by suicide, the reactions were vast from shock to hurt to even anger. People who have had personal experiences of suicidal thoughts ...

Communication is the foundation of all relationships. While we often talk about watching our words, what we don't often talk about as much is watching our listening. Listening not only has an enormous impact on how we perceive things, but also it drives our responses and reactions (check out my podcast episode 134 "Listenin...

There's a well-known saying, "pain is inevitable, but suffering is optional". However, some people thrive in pain. And some people are very attached to their problems. And when presented with potential solutions to their problem, they argue every reason why the solution is invalid. We call that being "committed to their sufferin...

Transformation really happens on the unconscious level. People act the way they do because people learn how to be a certain way on an unconscious level. There can be no change if we don't begin to get at this at the UNCONSCIOUS level when the consciousness has NOT SHIFTED. What Does it Take to Make a Transformation? #1 Being Ope...

The holidays can be a time of connection, but they can also be a time of activation, trauma, and grief. For many, this is a time for interacting with family, and for others celebrating the holiday without a loved one for the first time. If dealing with family, it is typical that certain family dynamics will arise, and buttons will get pushed which ...

One of the key themes in the foundational part of my NLP training is the importance of the mind-body connection. We know from research that neurotransmitters bathe every cell of the body. Additionally, the mind's influence on the body has also been documented in research. However, what has not always been talked about are the subtle tapes that we a...

One of the major themes I teach in my NLP training is that of cause and effect. Oftentimes in our lives it's easy to exist like we are at the effect of every circumstance in our lives. In fact, it's the most comfortable place to be, isn't it? People say, "I'm just a product of my environment" , "It is what it is.." What we fail to realize in these ...

Being heard not unlike other emotional needs is a crucial part of the connection in human beings. It has been said that 90% of problems in communication come from the need to be listened to. When an individual has the experience of not being heard or understood, they will either speak and act in ways that get them heard, or conversely, they may tur...

Tonight my son asked me to do something for him. A few weeks ago Delsyn woke up in fright and called out my name "Mommy!!!" he screamed. I ran to his room and as I comforted him he told me that he had had a nightmare. As he laid back down, he said to me "Mommy, I don't think I can go back to sleep". So, I said to him, "let's try...